I’d like to update this right now while I’m feeling happy and content to document that I’m not always depressed.
Had a great conversation with Ronny yesterday. I haven’t really talked with her for a few years and it was great catching up. I admitted to her that I’ve been struggling with depression for a long time and it had recently gotten to the point where I periodically think about killing myself.
I’ve only admitted that to her and Amy. It felt good to be honest with someone.
I told her that I was planning on seeking counseling to help me with my thoughts and emotions. She is going through residency now and talked about anti-depressants and how they can be helpful. I can’t take them because of the Navy, although if it gets down to it I might start taking them and just hope not to get caught. She didn’t think they would show up on a urinalysis, but I’m not sure.
Opening up to her really helped. She mentioned that she struggled with it sometimes and having goals really helped. I’ve been pretty unsuccessful with my goals of working out, eating better, reading more, etc. I have to learn to make these small changes in my life.
It was really good catching up with her. We used to have deep philosophical discussions but we’d more or less stopped talking when I started dating Allie. She said she felt somewhat uncomfortable being a female friend to a married man, which I understand.
To make the day even better, Megan messaged me asking if I wanted to play monopoly on Thursday. Maybe she’s just being friendly, I don’t know. I think I’ll enjoy my time with her and see where things go. Maybe we’ll just be good friends and nothing more. I don’t want to get to invested with romantic ideas and leave myself feeling shitty and unwanted.
Had my baby tooth removed yesterday. They put some stuff in it to fill the hole (not sure what it’s called, but it’s very soft, not hard like I thought it would be). The pain yesterday was pretty bad but after sleeping last night it’s mostly gone. However, I can’t stop tonguing the area and the stitches are starting to come out. A quick google search seems to indicate that this is not a big deal, that they normally dissolve on their own after a couple weeks. I hope I didn’t fuck this thing up.
Slow start this morning, was up in the middle of the night for several hours, then slept from 8 to 11. Going to get my hair cut before the barber shop closes at 4PM. Might try to go to the gym later on as well, even if it’s just for a few minutes.
Purchased a chromebook at Best Buy last night. So far, I think I like it. Still getting used to it, there’s little things that I don’t know if I like, but it’s decent. The screen is nice and it folds all the way back to become a tablet, and the battery life seems very good. Legit several hours of continuous video play (I fell asleep with youtube on autoplay and it still didn’t die).
Not going to feel guilty about this purchase. Need to stop looking back and trying to invest every single dollar I get. Going to enjoy this laptop and not worry about the cost. In other words: stop being stingy.
Life is worth living. I feel good right now, and I want to document that I’m not always sad.
Also, today is the first day I’ve had off since the middle of April. Shiftwork is finally over.